Support

You don't have to do this alone.

A small collection of resources we hope you'll find gentle and useful.

Writing a eulogy

A short guide to structuring a eulogy: one memory, one quality, one thanks. Read at your own pace.

Choosing readings & hymns

Suggestions organised by tone — reflective, celebratory, spiritual, secular — with excerpts to help you choose.

Practical checklist

Everything to plan before the day of service, from timings to travel to who reads which section.

Helplines & organisations

Cruse Bereavement Care, Sue Ryder, Marie Curie and Samaritans — all offer free support at any hour.